haha.. funny, my T is the opposite, he steers me away from the feeling into the intellectual.

i wouldn't accept any parent role, and that isn't meant badly, it's just me. It would create a huge rift. i need to feel more on equal level. My pdoc has been this way with me for ten yrs, always equal. Maybe it's because i don't accept an inner child theory. Whatever works.

i'm not trying to be offensive or argumentative by that. i am perfectly ok and accepting of others believing in inner child and parental connection. i think it's great when someone finds something that works for them. i'd be ignorant to think my own ideas were all there is out there.