Omg it sounds like a nightmare kind of life. I don't know if he is abusing you but this whole situation sounds beyond ridiculous. He reminds me of my dad. Oh how awful. I suggeSt you tell him in no uncertain terms that you are making appointment for both of you in the therapist's office like next week. If he refuses to go you will know what to do. And please don't have kids with him. Imagine he treats children this way?????

You deserve so much better

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