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Originally Posted by Komfortable
It's been a month since she and I spoke. Thursday I got a text from her "Hope you've been well, C. Miss you."
I honestly haven't thought about her much lately. I've even moved on and found company with another woman who is capable of love and doesn't use people. Why did E feel the need to contact me? Does she need something she knows I can provide? Does she really miss me? Her family did say that they think I'm really good for her and she would be giving up the best thing to ever happen to her. Did they tell her that and it's sinking in? I suppose I'll never know.
How do I handle this? I'm not equipped for this kind of stress.
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Handle it by doing nothing. Never give up on a worthy and loving woman to go for "what you can't have". Forget her and move on. No response needed. She is a sad case, I don't think she's capable of a loving relationship for some time. And on top of that, she brings out the worst in you and you don't bring out any loving feelings in her. Human relationships are transactional. You two aren't a good fit. Stay with your new, healthier girl.
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