No we cannot have everything we want. In your case it's a very good thing that you don't get what you want. This man is bad news. No men don't fall in love because woman agrees to sex. And If a man falls in love he would wait for sex

Yes it's up to you to make many things happen in your life but not in a direct kind of way. For example if you like these type of guys perhaps you need therapy to explore why. Then perhaps you need to expand dating pool and look for certain signs and red flags. Get healthier yourself . Then you will start meeting better men and hopefully the one. Or if you are unemployment it's up to you to go apply for jobs. Etc etc

Good for you not sleeping with him. See these kind if things are up to you.

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