FWIW, what strongly attracts me to women is their personality. Of course I take a second glance at certain body types and faces when I stroll through the grocery store, but personality is what gets me fantasizing about a relationship. When I have talked to a few girls, it was like I knew them all my life. Unfortunately, I have never been bold enough to act on those feelings of attraction, so I'm a 50 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend. LOL.

Anyway, the last girl that I felt attracted to was fat and ugly by normal definitions. Her personality wasn't the same as mine, but somehow it was very attractive to me. She would always make sarcastic remarks about things and then say "I'm going to hell for that". I thought the same things, but I was too timid to say those things myself. It's hard to explain, but there was something about her personality.