I totally agree with you on that Gerber. You'll want to discuss that with him. When I was going deeper the 45 minutes per week was not enough.

In fact, at one point, he did try to do 2x per week and the insurance refused it and gave him all sorts of trouble. So, I had to learn to deal on my own and that was so hard. Somewhere in my past posts are discussions about that.

If I could do anything over at all, it would be to talk more up front about what you need from the sessions and your T. I had such a hard time doing this and then when I did, it was rejected and the next several sessions were discussions about his rejecting me by not fighting the insurance company.

I shudder just remembering any of that but I'm glad you posted this so I can try and help you avoid extra pain...