Of course you'll feel betrayed. That's a huge financial burden that he just placed upon you for his self interest. Granted, he just suffered many losses in a short time, but that's no excuse to drag you down into a financial hole. Then to get emotive on you by claiming it's You not being supportive. I just peeled back from reading a couple psych articles, it's really not my place to slap a label...I'm sure others may.