((((((((((((((((((((((((Jennifer)))))))))))))))))))))))) I am sorry that I didn't answer earlier but I really was not sure what to say other than what I would do and I didn't think that was appropriate as it really wasn't my decision but yours. I think it is very personal and what you can withstand. I think it could get very ugly and trying for you. Do you think you are up to it? What is your motivation? I am afraid everything about you will come out. Everything in your life not jut this one incident. Are you prepared for that. I guess I really don't know but it may even seem that you are on trial is that ok with you? I could be all wrong about this and your attorney is much more qualified than I so I would ask her more questions than I could ever think about giving you answers. Anyway, I don't think I would be up to the task; but then again I want to stress that is me not you. I feel bad that you feel neglected but this is why I was reluctant to respond. Good luck with your decision as it is a difficult one and one I hope you don't regret later. Very special hugs (((((((((((((((((((((((Jennifer)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

BB