ok, update time.

Tomorrow will be two weeks. I just can't make this breakup complete and final.

First of all, he has yet to address the evidence. I can't get closure until he admits it at least looked badly for him and validate I had good reason to question him. He keeps saying sorry but it is flat and falls on deaf ears. It is not an admission of guilt rather a blanket apology. Saying sorry for the sake of saying sorry.

As explained above, his initial reaction was to get very angry. He said some horrible things, but the last week he has been the opposite. He is desperate to get back together.

He kept contacting me to get together. The reasons were valid yet tiresome. He had stuff of mine to drop off. Could I come over and explain what I packed (moving) and how. He even feigned having a panic attack. He had art work of mine to return, and so it has gone on. Each time he has been all nice and sweet. Wanting to hug and even hold my hand. I simply pulled myself back.

I've explained it's over to him again and again and he just doesn't get it. He made his move to another city and I assumed it would finally end but he has kept it up. Texting and msging me everyday. What does he not get about my telling him it's over? What does he not get that I need closure over his internet infidelities? Ehat does he not get that I can't trust him and won't resume our relationship. What does he not get about 'No'?