I work full time and I make more than he does. He was able to get 36 hours this week and next week-- I'm not sure if that's what he wanted or if he's doing it because of my reaction. I think it's possible that he has felt overwhelmed and it felt like this is something he had to do-- but I'm still upset that he didn't talk to me before he did it and it took him 2 weeks to tell me about it.