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Old Oct 20, 2015, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Zorja View Post
Yeah, I couldn't think of a better way to describe it that the time. I felt like he had made this decision without me this and was trying to turn it around on me in some way.
Because that's pretty much what it is. By holding him accountable he shifts the shame back in your direction.
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