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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I clipped this earlier, in regards to my been there, done that..not sure if you can relate, but here goes...
"*If the narcissist does not want to keep a promise and you become upset, your feelings*won’t be*validated, there will be no apology or*show of empathy. Instead,*the narcissist will vilify you*for being upset and blame you*for your lack of empathy*for not considering that they may have had a bad day. You will*be labeled as selfish and demanding for expecting the poor narcissist to*honor his/her word like a normal adult. However, if you have a bad day, don’t expect to*receive the same concessions."
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Thank you for posting this but I don't think he's a narcissist. I think he's overwhelmed and depressed. He didn't know what to do and he made a bad decision.
I also think that, right now, he can't see past his own issues. He doesn't see what's going on with me. He can barely raise his head above his own problems. That doesn't make any of this right but I'm trying to understand what's going on with him.