I am 38. Will turn 39 in June 2016. My boyfriend is going to be 30 in s few days.
We are extremely happy and for both of us this seems like the very thing we were waiting for. However I have s nagging concern about our age gap. We are indifferent about having children. I wouldn't mind having them if my partner wanted them but also comfortable without. However I am afraid one day when he gets older he may feel differently and desire to have a family and I will no longer be able to have children. We discussed this and he said if I'm unable to have them in the future then we can adopt or go without. He said he can get s vasectomy as it is only fair that we both are unable. He assures he would not leave me. However vasectomies are reversible and I fouls hate to limit my loved one's options. And I think no one can give guarantees so far ahead into the future about how he may feel. Can someone recommend or suggest a way to resolve or deal with this situation. His words provide little to settle my worries.
Thank you