I have highlighted what you have written and maybe it will help:
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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
It seems like we both speak different languages. It's always been that way and I never realized it until it was too late. We needed couples therapy badly but she wouldn't go. She was either ignorant or not open minded enough. Could never have a real discussion of the issue. Always ended in anger and hurt feelings. The emotion also killed any chance of understanding. She would never share and I shared too much. Without communication there is nothing.
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A lot of absolutes here. Your significant other may be feeling overwhelmed or left out of the relationship? Why don't you go for counseling yourself? It may be that when she sees you go, she will want to go, too.