yes a positive letter is in the works.

How do I in the meantime forget about the fact I can't compete with her step-dad? This is a different issue than my original question I know but so very much tied to it. I am reminded of this over and over again. To block my child on FB seems so confrontational but it is also the ONLY way I have of knowing the ocassional thing that happens in her life. I wish there was a magic wand I could wave and she would suddenly see the light. It boggles my mind that she can't have seen these things on her own, that it's inappropriate for him to be hanging out with her girlfriends and behaving badly let alone what he did while with me.