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Originally Posted by IceCreamKid
I have highlighted what you have written and maybe it will help:
A lot of absolutes here. Your significant other may be feeling overwhelmed or left out of the relationship? Why don't you go for counseling yourself? It may be that when she sees you go, she will want to go, too.
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Thanks for your input but it's really the opposite of what you think.
I know I speak in absolutes but in no way should you take it literally. It's just the way I speak. But one of the reasons in this case is because many of the absolutes of which I speak are almost true ! You are correct about one thing and that is that she was overwhelmed ,but by the many times I have tried to get her to go to couples therapy WITH me.
She's just one of those people that " never want to talk about it " , or just won't say anything which infuriates me. Hence the ' Communication Breakdown ".
P.S. I'm the one who has been left out of the relationship for a long time.