Stefano, your insight into h's world is very helpful. Thank you. I have heard of people being able to use their depressive pain to catapult themselves into action. I'm glad that works for you. You must be an artist

I am going to look for the book you suggest. It sounds like something that would be very helpful. I know it must be difficult for h to not understand what is happening. But I don't know how to help that. I will try and be more communicative - maybe that will help both of us.