I'm not sure exactly where I come down on this. U said u were honest with her...so no game playing. The brain is an organ like say your liver. Subject to diseases, disorders. To say it's all in your head would be like saying a liver disorder is all in your liver. So adjust your reality accordingly. If you feel a certain way cuz you have a brain disorder like depression, that is your reality. To dismiss it as unimportant 'because it's in your head' is ridiculous. Reality isn't an objective list of behaviors. If it were, we could just get the list check what to feel & do when X happens.