Thanks for your input but it's really the opposite of what you think.
I know I speak in absolutes but in no way should you take it literally. It's just the way I speak. But one of the reasons in this case is because many of the absolutes of which I speak are almost true ! You are correct about one thing and that is that she was overwhelmed ,but by the many times I have tried to get her to go to couples therapy WITH me.
She's just one of those people that " never want to talk about it " , or just won't say anything which infuriates me. Hence the ' Communication Breakdown ".
P.S. I'm the one who has been left out of the relationship for a long time.