What do you consider a normal amount of close friends and aquaintances cause frankly I'm jealous of what you have.

As for your husband, I have learned that relying on one person for our social and active life is not positive. When I broke with my BF I found a huge gaping hole and the realisation I depended on him for 'life' far too greatly. I encourage you to take advantage of those friends you do have. Which again, I think seeing weekly as being quite good already.

My own question is how do you think your husband would react to you relaxing the time you spend and cling to him? How does he already feel about the time you spend with your friends.

Aquaintances are good, but I agree you could perhaps distance yourself or reduce the time you spent with them.

Again, I want you to realise that having that many friends can be considered by some to already be a great deal.