You're not "off." You just stated your own opinion, which is fine!

My thoughts about this and other support message boards have always been that of "support group." If we don't enter the group, then we're limiting ourselves and others to what support there is, especially on a board as large as this.

If we get several different points of view, then we can pick and choose the one that suits our situation best. I feel that if a newer person is told "PM me" and they do that, then that person isn't getting all the benefits that could be theirs.

Let's face it. This is a Mental Health site. We're bound to get advice that might not be the best... or even worse, get manipulated or sucked in by some if we're just PMing. On the board, that wouldn't tend to happen as much.

This is just ME: I mean, if all the people that post in the sexual forum are so free and easy with the subject lines, what can be worse?? I can't imagine anything more private and possibly humiliating than THAT!! I wouldn't even begin to THINK of posting even my most beautiful experiences with my husband! It's too precious and too private for me. But then again, like I said, this is just ME.