it's tough having the world on your shoulder's is'nt it? especially when you start to feel yourself crumble under the strain...of all the things I could say to you at a time like this,the most important thing is that God loves you/your daughter and he wants to help so talk to him,he listens,he knows,and he can work all of this out. faith is the ability to find peace in the hands that have held you all along.