So my boyfriend brought up the kids thing again this morning: 'So that was a no on kids?'
I brought up the idea I had that he only wanted them because he wanted a legacy/thought he was supposed to, and he corrected that idea of mine and went into more detail. I still don't really get why he wants kids, though. Maybe it is more appropriate to say that I don't think he really understands what it is like to take care of kids, which is probably unfair. I am thinking of all the work/logistical aspects and assume that he is not thinking about those because he has never dealt with them.
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