First, let me welcome you to PC! I'm glad you found us and I hope you find exactly what you are looking for in care and support. There are a lot of wonderful folks here who are supportive and knowledgeble.

Wow, you do have a lot of worries on your shoulders right now green. I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through such difficulties.

I think you are right to be worried about your daughters' behaviors as they certainly don't seem normal at this point. I believe I would get her to a psychiatrist/psychologist as soon as possible for a complete work up. It is possible that she is dissociating in some way. And it is possible she is not telling all that has gone on, either because she is not able to remember or because she is afraid of telling.

As a mom too, I understand your fears and frustrations. I think you are doing exactly the right thing by looking for help for your daughter. I pray that you are able to find the right help for her and find it soon.

Keep posting here and I'm sure you find the support you need to continue the "good fight" for your daughters emotional health, and yours as well.

I wish you all well ((((((( green & family ))))))))

*Gentle Hugs*
sabby