Goofy Girl,
A lot of people don't have a good understanding of mental health issues.
I can't think of an example, but my husband sometimes has two opposing views on an issue. I call him on it, and tell him he can't have it both ways. He has to chose one stance, and stick to it. I try to smile at him when I am saying this.
Or you could tell him, if he doesn't want to support you in what you know is right for you, then he needs to stay out of it.
Just some ideas.
EJ