Dear T,
I'm reflecting on my needs list. I think that it's mentally fine tuned. I'm revisiting, as I mentioned, what I posted as a dating profile for that entire one week that I struggled with the online suggestion of pdoc. I like your word of mouth idea, but I'm seeing where something leads first.
I had put, my idea of a date was take me out to the ballgame. Juicy burgers over salads and taking a drive without destination. Or with willingness to see what's along the way. Oh and being approached first, matters. There's something about it, that leaves me confident that their heart is in it.
Communication comes down to respect and no power plays on either side. I could ramble the needs list.
I've learned that finances are an important matter of discussion. Not talking perfection, am talking does one know timing, as there's a time to spend there's a time to cut back. Is there a sense of responsibility?
How one interacts with others is important to observe, because that trickles down.
Thinking about these burgers and games and non destination drives.
I'm trying to test myself in knowing is a person emotionally safe to me or am I lacking flag raising abilities? I'm erring on the former.
That's it, for the moment.
Me
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