The guys in here are mostly immature and gets easily upset because of being deprived of any sexual contact. In other words, they get their feelings hurt, but they also get resentful because our partner uses sex as a form of control and gets a kick out of it.

I personally don't blame them, I would too.

I think the older one gets, the lower the sex drive goes, and when there are earlier issues in life, the harder it is to maintain.

Also, I think that when it becomes a stressor in the relationship, the drive even withers even further.

If everyone took a break from sexual worries and took a deep breath and quit being childish about it, relax, maybe it'll kick start on its own. I've noticed that when I become frustrated, if I take the pressure off, after time it's back to normal.