All I'm saying is I've said I don't like coffee to people before I started dating and learned what I could drink at Starbucks that wasn't caffeinated...I understand you were asking her to hang out but in the moment she might not have understood that....a good follow up might have been oh ok I just wondered if you wanted to hang out sometime....I think you gave up too easy. There is always next time, she might suggest something now that you've put it out there. I only say this because I'm socially inept and have done this before....