This is an interesting thread. I hadn't given the matter much thought. I have to admit - it is nice to PM and see that pop-up saying there is something in your mailbox. Helps with the Charlie Brown syndrom. lol. I always imagined when someone told a newbie that they could PM, that it was instructive and offering another avenue they may not have known about. I also usually think that the person offering has some experience or knowledge similar to the person they're making the offer to - that maybe they felt they related and wanted to offer a hand of friendship.