I have postpartum depression which for various reasons ,I could not share with my husband.So in the postpartum period my husband was very angry at me for not looking after the baby properly and not doing other chores.I told him I was doing what I could but he was extremely angry and thought I was lazy .

Even though I didn't tell him I had depression,shouldn't he have been a little compassionate? I am rethinking the whole marriage thing now.I can't seem to understand how a spouse could be so angry and call me names even. I know he has some issues at work .But still I can't really comprehend the anger and feel so hurt by it that I don't want to move past this?

I'd very much like how other people see this situation.I just want to make sure I am not over reacting.Please share your opinions because I can use all the help.