i totally agree with this thread. i'm fed up with people announcing that they are leaving and 15 minutes later, they're staying. this is after they're begged to stay and everyone makes nice with them.

just PM someone and say "i'm really having a hard time, help me" OR post it. whatever rocks the proverbial boat!!!!!!!!

the subject lines are starting to be triggering and i don't use that word lightly. in fact, i don't know that i've ever posted it.....i've PMed someone about it. i've gone public with it now.

there are many, many people here who have their own issues and work on them diligently. those threads take away from that, IMHO.......