I find it very hard to accept my flaws because other people are constantly using them as a reason to break away from me. They've become a "problem" my flaws have.

I used to accept myself, but it wasn't enough for others. They found fault with my flaws and pointed them out, now I doubt myself because of it, and have insecurities.

You can love and accept yourself, but sometimes it's not good enough for others. If they find fault with you, they find fault with you, no matter how you see yourself.