Okaaay, I guess I could use feedback on this one. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now..we both go to college together, and we've been home from school since May. When we first started dating at school, he told me that his best friend at home is a girl, who we'll call Jane. He described his relationship with her as "very unique", because I stated to him that I found it weird that they have shared beds together, since I wouldn't be caught dead in a bed alone with one of my good male friends (lol) ...but he insisted that they are just best friends. I suppose this caused a bit of insecurity on my part before the summer even began, but the real trouble has been lately. I've met this girl once all summer and it was unintentionally . Since I live about 40 minutes from him, I see him about two days a week. The other five days of the week he's spending his time with her. I.E. today: within the hour I left his house to go back to my house, she was already heading over to his house. (thank you AIM for this information) Well, this upcoming weekend, he will be spending the entire weekend with her at some beach house 3 hours away. I don't know what I should feel, I trust him completely, but I'm still really bothered by it. I guess I'm jealous that they spend far more time together than we do and I'm sure that they have a stronger relationship together...and I find it odd that I've only met her once the entire summer, considering the amount of time they spend together, you think I'd be around her more...any advice would be great, I'm just really confused.