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Originally Posted by marmaduke
Atypical.
You are so right!
Of course. The whole crappy environment creating PD's and that's all that does it theory has NEVER made sense to me, if that were the case then surely everyone in the same family would have the exact same personality dysfunction
I had narcissistic parents, mother was a maligant narc.
All three of us children suffered because of mother/father- BUT only one of us is a narc like mother. My middle sister is powerful, loud, confident, with sky high self esteem, a demanding entitled narc and she was ALWAYS like this, from the get go.
Whereas I and my elder sister are quiet, no confidence, timid and have both suffered with chronic depression. I've been crippled by social aniexty.
And yet.
I am to believe apparently that my steamroller of a narc sister is the one who is really 'timid and insecure' Bullc##p!!
It makes no sense.
I'm definitely a highly narcissistic being, and unlike Narcissists I can admit that with no problem. With straight up Narcissists, in my experience they HATE it when someone points out their narcissism to them. When someone calls me narcissistic I just say, "thanks for noticing!" and continue with my business, ha!
YES!
Narcissists cannot admit fault, ever, they ALWAYS blame someone else.
A psychopath can admit fault (if they want to) the attiude is 'Yeah, l did it, so f##king what??!!'
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Sounds like your family is all kinds of special, just like mine in so many ways hahah. Seriously though, that totally sucks. It's no wonder you've educated yourself about NPD and related conditions.
One of my father figures was a malignant Narcissist(he's now deceased), the other is just a straight up Narcissist, and my mother is also Antisocial like myself. There's just something about picking at Narcissists that's so fun I just can't bring myself to stop and most people encourage me to keep doing it so why stop? I don't do anything illegal to them I just make them ***** about how cruel I and the rest of the world is blah blah blah I'm sure you've heard many a "woe is ME" rant from your Narcissists, so I don't doubt you know exactly what I'm talking about lol.
My experience with Narcissists is very similar to yours, they NEVER admit fault. I had an experience around that very issue with a malignant Narcissist this year, he and myself got into an argument and I slammed him with all the things he's done... He was extremely distressed and all but yeah, he didn't admit to ANYTHING in spite of all the overwhelming evidence that certain things were entirely his own doing. I thought it was hilarious and I learned later that he's still totally pissed/upset with me. To that I say, oh cry me a ****ing river... LMAO. I can admit to things I've done no problem I'm just incapable of remorse so I don't give two ****s, heh. The only time I haven't admitted to doing something is if it is in my best interest to be dishonest, otherwise I can admit to my "bad" behavior with a level of clarity that tends to shock people. My ego does not depend on whether or not I'm seen as a good or evil person or anything like that, I'm completely indifferent... Again, unlike Narcissists, who seem to be in my experienced OBSESSED with being seen as a paragon of virtue.