I think you have a;
Engulfing narcissistic mother. A mother who 'owns you' who is ALWAYS right, and you? You, are always wrong.

If the daughter ever does try to assert her individuality, perhaps in her teen years (which is another natural point at which people individuate further), the engulfing mother will react badly. She may manifest Narcissistic Rage at attempts by the daughter to separate, and terrorise the daughter into submission. Or she may sneer or gaslight the daughter. This can be hugely shocking to the daughter who'd never known anything but approval and (what felt like) love before. The tactics vary, but the result remains the same: an engulfed and trapped daughter.

engulfing mother - daughters of narcissistic mothers