I too was offering support and was accused of monitoring it and got yelled at. The adult chat is a clique of regulars that just say stuff that i find not relevant. I even wanted to delete my account twice, but decided to stay. Emotional support is popular because Adult conversation is more risque and so you are not the only unpopular one my dear, not at all. Just make friends with those you have and chat with them. Would'nt it be nice if we had chat option to our individual address books? Then the ES room would be freer.