Yeah well, hooking up isn't the only determining factor in intimacy sweetheart. My husband and I didn't "hook up" till our wedding night, but we were plenty intimate with one another, and I'm not talking sex stuff. Sharing our hearts, our dreams, stuff like that is what I'm talking about. Adn it seems, he does that with her.

I don't think anyone here thinks you're stupid. . .maybe a bit innocent and naive, but we've all been there to some degree. Take the advice for what it's worth. . .most of these ladies are pretty good at giving it.