You do realize that tossing a dress in his face and telling him to put it on may be EXACTLY what he would love for you to do.
Him telling you what he wants would ruin the fantasy of being told what to do.
What is your comfort level with this whole issue? Answer that question then if you are OK with it move things to that point, ie toss a dress in his face.
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“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi
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