Thanks Mountainbard.

Often conversations drift to light chit chat in the Emotional support Room I agree....but if I am there, it's usually to offer support and welcome new members, as its often the first room new members gravitate to.

There are times when conversations become 'Off topic' or argumentative...this is when I remind members that the Coffee House or Adult chat would be a more appropriate room for such conversations.

I agree with Mountainbard...and would encourage all members to keep in mind that the main purpose of Emotional Support is to provide an oasis and safe place for vulnerable members. I've found that using a light hand when there is a general chat happening by saying..."I hate to interrupt, but please keep in mind that this room is for Emotional Support"... or "Maybe this conversation is better suited to the coffeehouse, please keep in mind that this room is for Emotional Support" creates a segue for the room to get back on track. Also by simply asking "Is there anyone in need of support right now'? gives less forward members an opportunity to open up and engage.