I'm sorry Hun that is happening to you. Relationships are so hard to do with bipolar, especially untreated. Coming on here and venting is quite all right because most of us have hardly any home support either, we just have each other.

I take my meds faithfully regardless of what I think, and living stabile has helped me distinguish between the truth and the false, what's real and what's bullsh*t.

Relationships have always been rocky and I've managed to screw them all (4) up. That's before I got stabile.

I'm wondering why all of a sudden he sees your bipolar after he married you, not before?

First thing I would do is start taking my meds to get stabile. This is for you and you only, not for your husband. Once you are stabile, you'll feel it.

It is hard and frustrating to be supportive to someone that won't help themselves or do the right things they are suppose to do to be stabile because I live with a partner that refuses to do the right thing. We are getting seperated for some really out of this world reasons I might share later.

I would start by working on myself first of all, then everything else just might fall into place and get better. Get well.