thank you...and now I find this (ironically as I write to you all for advice), lyrics of a sappy (not well known song) in her profile, and he played the same song for me yesterday asking if I liked it because he loves it. With my warped brain, I'm telling myself she just put it there cause she likes the song and it doesn't relate to him, but that most likely is not the case. It was on an entourage episode last week..(and of course it's their ritual to watch it every week)...So that's going beyond friendship for me...I now think I have to back off slowly, but it's hard because we have the same circle of friends at school...lovely senior year at college this will be for me.