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Originally Posted by omegalamed
Ruari, i think a flirtatious man who is married to me is not worth the trouble. Eventually he will cheat on his wife, if not with you then someone else. Flirting leads to something and you don't need that. You have more self worth and esteem otherwise you would not be asking this question. I personally would not remain friends with a married man who flirts. He will always have a roaming eye, and if he does it to his wife, he will do it to you if you get involved with him. Being friends with him can also label you as a homewrecker even if you are not. People love to run their mouths in an office, I know. Best to find a excuse to not be around him anymore. Those are my thoughts. I hope that helps.
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TOTALLY not planning on getting involved with him in a romantic way. I promise. I can't; even if I had loose morals, my career means more to me than sex at this time in my life. I also can't really not be around him; we have to work pretty closely--he depends on me, and my job wouldn't exist without his job needing me. (Confusing, I know, but I don't want to give a lot away. If you think about it, I feel like it's obvious what industry we're in
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I feel a little confused. He loves his wife and family; I don't really question that. I feel like he'd never stray... but I'm also pretty naive sometimes. I'll admit that things tend to broadside me. I guess I'll be honest--I wanted someone to tell me I was overthinking it, that he was probably just being innocently goofy and yeah, flirtatious, but that some men just...are. Not necessarily because I want to keep the thing going, but because it disappoints me so much to think that he'd ever have anything but innocent intentions.
If that makes any sense.