Hey, Artchic. I know where you're coming from; I used to have a binder filled with my wedding plans. A freaking binder. No groom, not even a boyfriend. I'll let you in on one of my deepest secrets: I haven't had a serious boyfriend in 6 years. I know I'm smart, pretty, and interesting. But I can't find a guy who will a) give me the time of day b) with whom I connect or c) if a & b exist, then he is not single.

Just a question, and not to sound critical: what other attributes besides gorgeous hair make you a great catch? I have pretty awesome hair myself (in any case, it's unique), but I have found that men don't care, first and foremost, about my hair. Once they get to know me they get kinda attached to it, but what draws them in isn't really my physical attributes. I will admit that I am fairly overweight--I was already a thick (but fit) girl to begin with, and I've gained a lot in the past two years. I know how it is to feel like men are overlooking you because of this. I don't have much to say about that, unfortunately.