Ok, I know there's already a thread similar, but this is a bit different. Maybe I'm just dense or something. I understand why some people are bothered when people say they're leaving and then don't. THAT I get. What I don't get is why people will post that they are going to leave, and then hang around to see whether or not people will beg them to stay. Is it part of a mental illness? What am I missing in this picture here?