Hi Gracey,

That was kinda my point. Yes I think it's part of mental illness to a degree (need for attention, manipulation, control, etc.), so that's why I was saying that people need to take responsibility and say why they are upset instead leading everyone on this wild goose chase of "im leaving". I don't say that to hurt people, but if you are hear for support the best way (imo) is to take responsibility and say what it is you really need help with.

I think that's why it triggers me - I've had alot of needy people in my life who do and say things to manipulate me and I distance myself from that now.

Tranquility