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Old Oct 26, 2015, 09:39 PM
MaybeYes MaybeYes is offline
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Originally Posted by Purple Heart View Post

Lastly, some of you maintain contact at family gatherings with your brothers. Why? Why have contact with them with what they do? Why do you have to put on an act like everything is fine between the two of you. Solution: no contact with them, makes life incredibly easier for you.

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I maintain contact because I feel like I have to. No one in my family knows how bad the abuse was, and especially not about the sexual abuse. I suppose it's my fault for not telling them, but I think I have many valid reasons for not telling. So they don't understand why I don't just "get over it."