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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think I misread the original post. You've been with men who were married to others so you feel filthy. I thought you felt filthy just being with any men.
I don't think having high moral standards means having low emotional quotient. It just means having standards.
I really don't understand how you can say somebody has hard heart or are distant because they don't sleep with married men. That's a bit strange to me.
By your logic unless one has sex when married men they are not caring people. How does this make sense? As previous poster said caring for others does not equate getting involved with people intimately especially if they are committed to others
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To let you know I'm a virgin, I haven't have had sex with anyone till now and I never said I had sex. If moral standards are meant with having sex, then I think I'm very high on them. It wouldn't be easy for you to find a virgin in her 30s.
I never said sex is equivalent to care. That is interpreted by you. What I said when you care for someone, you wouldn't shun them or just move away. At least I do things to comfort them even if it is not something I myself aren't too comfortable with. I can't hurt someone more by showing them their wrong doing at a vulnerable stage they are at.
We both are on different page here. When you judge someone be ready that you are also being judged by your words.