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Old Oct 27, 2015, 12:13 AM
Anonymous37802
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Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
And if a guy won't ask me out when I am out, how the hell am I supposed to know they are interested? I don't ask guys out because of my trust issues. They certainly aren't helping the cause by remaining silent.
Well...guys aren't really much different than we are. They're insecure, they have trust issues, they worry about rejection.

I can't think of one person I know who met their significant other just...out. Okay, scratch that, 17 years ago, I worked with a girl who met her husband while she was pumping gas. And I guess I know a few people who met their significant others at bars (that's not my preferred method, but to each their own...I don't think it's bad, just not my thing) and the rest met through friends, through mutual activities, work, online dating, school, church, and etc. They got to know each other before someone made a move. The point is that husbands/wives don't tend to materialize on the street. Not in real life, at least. They do in the movies, that's what makes movies so darned good...they're a fantasy!