I think it helps to realize that firsts....are EXTREMELY overrated by society. The first date you go on....well, its bound to be a little awkward unless you really know the guy. The first time you have sex.....you don't know what the heck you're doing, so again....awkward!

Society places WAAAY too much emphasis on "firsts" and it puts a lot of undue pressure on people for the first.....whatever.....to be spectacular. Honestly, it doesn't really matter where you start, what matters is where you end up!

So just be yourself! If you put pressure on yourself to make something special, 99 times out of 100, it won't be. Special memories come spontaneously and aren't planned. (I guess one could argue that weddings break this rule, but given the high divorce rate, I'm not so sure!)