I understand your frustration about not finding the every elusive "groom".

Since your current living situation has you pretty much stuck as to getting to places where you would have a better chance of meeting new people, I personally would just focus on moving to an area that will allow you to have transportation easier to obtain.

I'm not saying give up on your search , just set it aside a bit and make a game plan that is going to allow you to move more towards a better location to live in that will open up more avenues of mingling and possible finding someone.

Good luck in your search, I'm glad you have hair most women would envy